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Heather is one of those stylish, warm, and talented women that  we all love meeting through the blogosphere. And I felt that way even before I won a delightful giveaway from her!  This lovely Greek key train case and a $50 gift certificate for Zappos.  THANK YOU, Heather! 


'Santorini' Train Case

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AU REVOIR

I was loving the French life! But reality was still that I was an American army brat, and that came with certain rules.  

For example, if we were incorrigibly bad at school, we would be sent back to the States while our fathers remained abroad.

Or if we caught hepatitis, they'd deport us back to the U.S. pronto!

Family emergencies stateside meant separations.  My Mom had to go back to California when my grandmother was ill, and I didn't get to go along.  Dad and I 'batched' it together for two months.

And then there were world events.  My Mom always had an 'go bag' packed in the closet, with clothes, medicines, documents, and money.  She wasn't being paranoid -- this was required of Army families.  We were on foreign soil, and the welcome mat could be pulled at any time.

In October 1962, it almost happened.  The Cuban Missile Crisis put everyone on full alert.  Fathers spent more time at work, mothers were edgy, and although we kids were allowed to go to school, we had to wear our dog tags at all times.  I went to class knowing I might be evacuated by myself if things went south.


Happily for me and the world, the danger passed.  But it was a lesson learned, that something other people just read about, could have a very real impact on us.

And then, a year later, it did happen.  It was a Friday night in November of 1963.  My parents were at the officers club for a dinner party, and I was hanging out with my best friend at her house.  About 8:30 p.m., my parents suddenly came to the door and, without saying much, took me home.  Their faces were grim.  At home we turned on the radio. 

 

President Kennedy had been assassinated.  I don't really know if it was because of this, but a month later, our tour in France was curtailed, and we were on our way back to the States.

This time, the voyage wasn't as pleasant.  The December Atlantic was cold and rough. Even our cat was seasick.  We'd been planning a trip to Italy at Christmas, and I was sorry to miss out on it. I was going to have to start a new school in the middle of the term, knowing no one.  


And so ended our sojourn in France.  Such is the life of an Army brat.  And I wouldn't have traded that childhood for anything!

Thanks for joining me on my tour of France.  A bientot!






AN AMERICAN SHOPS IN PARIS

My mother didn't especially like the travelling life, but she did enjoy shopping in Paris!  We would travel the hour and half up to the capital frequently while we lived in Orleans.


Her experiences with the Parisian shopkeepers were fine.  We rarely experienced any rudeness, except for one time, and even that ended well.  It was at the cheese counter in the Bon Marche.  The Bon Marche is one of Paris's largest department store, and had (and has) a wonderful food hall.

 Mom was at the cheese counter being steadfastly ignored by a saleswoman who apparently didn't care for her American accent.  This went on for a while until suddenly, a nicely dressed man standing nearby, came to her rescue and, in spirited French that even Mom understood, chewed the salewoman out about being rude to Americans!  Mom got her cheese, and a pleasant memory of a polite Parisian.


My favorite of her purchases are a beautiful crystal necklace and evening bag that now belong to me.  I still have the original white satin lined box. 




 Next, a schoolgirl's experience with the Cuban missile crisis, and a sad curtailment.

Joining up with Anita and the other wonderful storytellers at Castles Crowns and Cottages's week in France!





ON TO ORLEANS

Joanie on the Pony.  That was what we nickname crazy Americans called the statute of Jean D'Arc, the savior of Orleans, born 600 years ago.  But it was a kindly tease.  As military folk, we all respected her valor.



We also loved her beautiful city, the Valley of the Loire location, and the proximity to Paris, 80 miles to the north.





We moved from La Rochelle to Orleans in the summer of 1962, and again, lodged in a hotel until our house became available.  The hotel was larger and grander than our little hotel in La Rochelle, and it was right on the Loire river.


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One of my friends' family lived 'on the economy' in a rented chateau.  I was so envious!!  Even though I knew they had no central heating and bad plumbing, I implored my parents to do the same. Even at that age, I was a romantic, and loved wandering through the grounds of their small estate. But alas, my mom preferred the comforts of a 'modern' house.


She did have a feel for French style, though, and dressed me up a bit now and then.


My everday life was pretty ordinary, consisting of school, climbing trees, and riding bikes.  We had no television, only radio.  But vacation time was when my restless father took us on the road.  We traveled to Spain, Germany, Belgium, Holland, Normandy, and all over France, in our little Renault Dauphine.


Alas, but 95% of our photos from that time are on slides, so I can't show them to you.  But here are a few of the mental pictures:

Driving past an orchard in Spain, glazed by an ice storm, lit pink in the morning sun.


Riding a tram to the ski slopes in Garmisch, Germany, near Lake Eibsee.


Christmas day in an ancient hilltop Roman monastery turned restaurant near Madrid, feasting on a banquet of paella and white asparagus.


Writing my name in pencil on the Eiffel Tower, and feeding pigeons at its base.


Eating rabbit for the first time at our pension in the southern French resort town of Biarritz, and glace (ice cream) on it boardwalk.


Coming up, buying crystals and cheese in Paris.

CREPES AND THE LYCEE

BONJOUR!  As promised, today I will share my memories of everyday life in France.  My parents loved to walk by the harbor in the evening and we would get fresh crepes from the street vendor.  Delicieux!


My father enjoyed the classic French cocktail, Pernod Anise.  I was always intrigued by how it would turn cloudy when he added water. Too bad chemistry class wasn't as interesting!



I was lucky to have parents who welcomed the experience of a different culture and instilled that in me as well.  They enrolled me in an all-girls French lycee (secondary school) for my fifth grade.  Although we lived twenty minutes from the town, they also let me choose to board at the school, which was a blast!  I loved our class uniform of pink and white checked smocks, and the camaraderie of the girls who helped me with my struggling French.  The teachers were kind but very strict, and there was no messing around in class, ever!!
 



We left La Rochelle in 1962 to move to Orleans, another wonderful French city.  Tell you about it tomorrow.  A bientot!


A JOURNEY TO FRANCE

This week I am joining Anita of Castles, Crowns and Cottages and many other adventurers for a (virtual) week in France... !


Anita is an immersion French teacher and her gorgeous blog often takes us on enchanting journeys to Paris and Provence, and other regions of that unique country.  But this week, we will all be sharing our own Francophilistic thughts, daydreams,fantasies andimages.  You can join the fun HERE.... 

I lived in France as a girl and love my memories of that time.  It was a unique experience that I wouldn't trade for anything in the world.' So this week, I'm going to share those memories.  Hope you take a moment to enjoy them with me!

We traveled to France on the merchant marine ship The Patch, via Bremerhaven, in my eight year old summer. The ocean was calm and aqua, until we got to the British Channel and everyone woke up seasick.  One day our stateroom porter called me excitedly to look through a porthole, where I saw dolphins leaping. 


On board, at table, we all practiced French.  My first phrase was "passez-moi le pain, s'il vous plait"  (Pass the bread please) which was fortitious because I became infatuated with French bread and butter.  I've had nothing so delicious since.


We moved first to the town of La Rochelle on the Bay of Biscay, a beautiful small city with a rich history, founded during the 10th Century.  La Rochelle was the largest base on the Atlantic coast for the Knights Templar.  Its harbor was guarded by two towers, the Chain Tower and the Saint Nicolas Tower at the entrance of the port (a chain was drawn across the two towers to prevent unwanted ships from entering) and further back the Lantern Tower, one of France’s oldest surviving lighthouses.  

We lived in a small hotel for a few months before getting housing, and as it was summer vacation I spent the days exploring the town with my mother.  My favorite memories are of shopping at the outdoor market,


exploring the ancient stone streets full of shops,


and walking in the park along the creek.


Tomorrow, if you join me, we'll have a drink at the cafe by the harbor, eat crepes, and visit my lycee!